I once was an I got ulcers as well.Okay well now we began to talk and I told her about a job that is paying 8.00 and hour and how it is closer to my home and children. Less wear and tare on my car. I had a few other reasons but I forget. Well She doesn't like the fact that I will be quitting and wouldn't be there anymore. I really felt special. She told me that I was like another copy basically of her. That seem to me to be the topper.
But one thing came to my mind. She wants me to stay cause she really wants me to. I have never had a job that cares that much about me before. Well I told her I had to think more on it and would get back to her. I had to work the next morning ..(this morning) and that was at 8 am. When she called she told me 7 am and I said ohh man I hate morning . Why so early. You usually have me evenings. She told me ..well Miss Patty you have Friday off. I tell you what miss Patty you can come in at 8 am instead. I told her ... okay that will work I guess. So I went in at 8 am and worked til 12 pm. I know that's not a bunch of hours but it's a job. Anyways I was mopping the floor and my friend Marie came in and gave me this look. She said....I am mad at you! ...me ... about what?...her...I hear that your gonna quit!
I looked back at my boss and she giggled and said ...boss..You see even miss marie doesn't want you to leave us. I just smiled and said ...But y'all I have to go where the money is. Things are tough on me and my family. I need more money coming in. We started to talk more and more about raises and stuff. That I am due for mine soon. I told them to leave me alone . and walked away laughing of course. I wasn't mad or anything I was joking . That's how we are there. Were goobers.
Well Marie didn't give up on me yet ,she followed me behind the counter and kept at me. Before long she left with her family. Leaving me with a smile on my face.Well soon I would be done with my day at work and was told that I could go home . I was ready cause I was tired. lol I aint a morning person. xP
Well before I got to leave My boss once again got me to herself in the office and sat me down to talk some more about the job offer and what I was gonna do. She of course was working to something. lol She told me please please don't leave. I will miss you too much . lol (she is a goober). She also told me that she was going to give me a 30 cent raise and she was gonna give me more hours. 30 hours a week. 0.0 Hey that's a lot to me. Well hmm that's a lot to think about. Then I asked her that if I don't quit then can I work there part time and still work here? She looked at me with eyes of "hey that's good" lol ...boss...yes! Yes you can and this will give you a chance to see if you like that job or not and if you don't then you can come back and tell me and I will give you full time then.
I tell you all I am getting a big head now. Well maybe not. I never was one to let life over come me. But I do feel so loved now where I never did before. Anyways the point I am making here is to be more how you want others to treat you and don't let stuff get in the way of your job. Don't hesitate to speak your mind with your boss. Their human just like you. If you show how you feel and they aren't all into themselves then things should be okay but becareful not to piss them off though.
Give good and good will give back in return.
Okay tips for today
Stress: Just relax by doing things that help release all that harsh feelings that have been bent up. Cry and that will open your mind.Breath in through your nose and out through your mouth slowly taking a pause at the end of every intake and out take. Laugh and smile more,stress hates that most cause your happy and there is no stress when your happy. Listen to some music that brings you back to a time when you were most happiest. Sleep,helps to heal your body of all the days stresses and brings your bodies strength back to top notch.
Love life: Sometimes you need a break from one another. Just let them do what they want to. Be it playing their play stations or just being on the computer. They will come to you if they are in the mood. trust me on that. Men no offense but you guys can't go without your lady loves. ^.^ and Ladies we may not be in the mood every time they are but sometimes we should because well it just not right to make your man go without his loving. There are many ways to make them happy. My husband will take what he can he says. Even if it is just giving his a massage or giving him a break from the house hold duties of his. ^.^
Yes I know that there are other sexual things as well guys but remember be happy with what ya can get. ^.^ I am sure you will get that if your nice about asking. ^.~
How to deal with a teen's attitude: I have had this one too many times. I saw a friend having something close to it. But hers was her teen wouldn't clean their rooms. I just find that telling them if they don't do what they should then things that we give them can be TAKEN back. But my problems are of that nature. Nope My problems are much tense. My daughter is giving attitude. I mean harsh attitude. She came in my room for something ,I forget what, but she walked back out of the room with attitude and forgot to close the door. I told her to come back and close the door by saying . Door! lol She came back with this " Yell much mom?" I said do what? She told me that I should go to bed already and get sleep cause you sure need it. Then slammed the door. Ohhh nooooo you didn't!
Ever watch that "Every body hates Chris" ? I was the mom right then. lol I jumped up off my bed ( I was watching a movie) I walked into the next room she was in. I told her to watch her mouth. Hunny I brought ya in this world and I can take ya out! lol I got this picture of my mom in my head and stopped then turned and walked back into my room. She came in later with more attitude. I told her one day I won't be here and you will remember this moment and wish you could take it back. That one I do have the right to say cause I was once in that place in time when MY mom was dieing and my Dad. I however was able to ask for their forgiveness. She got tears cause she remembered how it was for me. Sometimes it takes saying the right things that they can relate to because they were there as well.
House work needing done? This one is one I know well. I am a pro at this so much that I can respond to anything a kid troughs at me. lol example: My son was sitting in my chair in the living room and I walked into the room as my husband says to him. "Isn't that your moms work pants your wearing?" I looked down and thought that they might be but no they were to big. He said to us both "No they aren't they are mine and the ONLY ones I have to wear." I gave this look and said .."Well I haven't seen any dirty clothes out in the garage by the washer. So how am I to know when you need clothes?! Put your clothes out there and you would have clothes if not then wash them then."
He couldn't say a thing cause well he knew I was right. Ya have to be ready to say something smart right back that THEY can understand. ^.^
Okay now ya have a few tips to live by if need be. Now I am tired and need sleep. Hope I gave ya a good laugh and helped ya a few times along the way. Remember Life is what you make it.
And another tip for all the kidos out there and hubbies. Mothers day is coming and coming fast. Get her something! She deserves it and she will return the favor when it's your turn DAD. ^.^
Ideas....flowers , cards,dinner,make dinner clean the house for her,give her a spa kid of treatment....foot rubs ,paint her nails,massages,brush her hair even,
Ask her what is her favorite things she likes and things that she would love to do .
For instance me I want from my family be it the kids or hubby or even brothers sister whom ever...I would like a plant that I can put in the ground. I love growing things gardening and all,I have always want to have a porch swing and now I can do that cause I have a big tree in the back yard that I can put it in, my car could be washed,I can't eat chocolate so I would like things that don't have it in it..chips or a slushy (love those dang things . lol) I would love to be pampered all day for once. No cleaning and noise a hot bath at the end of the night filled for me and my nails painted but well I did them myself the other day. Comments from you would be a cool one from y'all . ^.^
Anyways y'all I am gonna go lay down. I am getting too tired now. Night night and remember mom . ^.~ and have fun...love ya.